I want more money. How much more money do you want? Do you want $10 more a day, $50 more a day or $100 more a day. Figure it out. Sure some of you will say, I want a million dollars a year! Who wouldn't? But I find that most of us will be reasonable when we're specifying exactly how much more money we want. I want a better job. This one may tie in with the one from above. What kind of better job? In what industry, doing what? Does a better job mean more money, more responsibility, more interesting tasks? If so, how much more money. How much and what kind of increased responsibilities. What kind of interesting tasks. What does "a better job" really mean? I want a BDSM partner. Who is he; what does he look like? What does he do? How does he treat you? How does he treat your children? What are his interests? Does he smoke? Does he drink? Define him in detail. What kind of relationship do you want? Think about that one. Really think. Often we think we want one kind of relationship and then we get it and wish we had another. Be honest with yourself.